The old man is lonely and spends money to find a chat
Every time I have to pay the chatter about 10 yuan, Liu Bo has spent nearly a thousand dollars in the past few months to “sit a chat fee”; some of the chatters are actually listeners, listen to the elderly to remember the past; find people chatForever, Aber, some grandmothers also want to find someone to talk about nausea.
Recently, it has been reported that some elderly people in Xi’an have gone to the park to find young women to “talk” every day in order to dispel their loneliness. They only want to show “happy and caring.”
Recently, the reporter made a special trip to the People’s Park in Guangzhou, Haizhu Square, Xiaogang Park, etc., and found that the phenomenon of Guangzhou old people looking for young and middle-aged women to chat with each other, although not “bold”, is concealed.A little shy.
The veiled chatter phenomenon found in the People’s Park one afternoon that there are many old people gathered here, singing, dancing, playing chess, playing poker, playing badminton, and teasing dogs, which mixed some middle-aged women.With a small bag, I kept moving through the crowd.
As a result, when the elderly were sitting alone, these middle-aged women wandering around immediately rushed forward with each other, and some chatted very “invested”. They also laughed from time to time, and became a “passionate” help for women.The old man squats and squats, and his intimacy is obstructive.
Liu Laobo, who often chats here, said that he is over 70 years old and retired from a transportation company in Guangzhou. He lives in Fangcun District. Although he is well-fed, he is very lonely.
Two years ago, his wife died. His son often worked in Shenzhen, Zhuhai and other places, and his daughter also married to Hong Kong.
Every day, except for eating and sleeping, the rest of the time is sitting alone on the sofa and watching TV while playing.
The loneliness of keeping the empty nest for a long time made him worry.
At the beginning of this year, when Liu Bo wandered around in the People’s Park, he found that many old people were chatting. Some old people talked to the people who had chatted with some money.
At that time, he felt a little embarrassed, spending money to find a middle-aged woman to chat can not face.
However, he couldn’t stand the loneliness of the empty wall all day long. He was tried to look at it and chatted with a woman in her 40s. She mainly talked about how families, children and the elderly lived in their old age. Later, they also talked about it.Chat some questions about history, etc. After chatting, I feel much better.
Liu Bo said that after each chat, he had to pay 10 yuan to the chatter. In the past few months, he had spent nearly a thousand yuan on the chat fee, but he bought a lot of happiness and didn’t feel lonely.
The chatter did not rain and held an umbrella in Xiaogang Park.
There are boulevards, lakes and rockeries in Xiaogang Park. The tranquil environment attracts the old people to the event and attracts many middle-aged women who accompany the soldiers.
The reporter found that there is a “fancy” phenomenon. Even in sunny weather, many middle-aged women who are eager to chat with umbrellas.
It turns out that some old people are as close to the women as they are, and when they are chatting, the umbrella is always blocked in front.
”The old people who chat with me account for more than half of the complaints. The old people have a full stomach, but they have an audience. At this time, I am accompanying the chat, it is better to say that they are listeners, they are talking and talking.My own childhood, the most proud things when I was young, and the interesting things of my children, I listened to them very seriously, and the old people who were hands-on were just a few.
“An accompanying woman who asked not to be named said.
In a circle in Xiaogang Park, I saw some elderly people laughing and chatting with middle-aged women next to them.
The old man of a well-known glasses at the lake left the middle-aged woman who was accompanying the chat.
Chen Bo, who had just paid 10 yuan for the “speaking” person, said to the reporter: “This person can’t do it. If you talk about two sentences, you know that there is no knowledge, and it is not a chat with people. I don’t want to waste.Time and mood.
According to him, he came here two or three times a week, looking for people to chat, but must have knowledge, can talk, or only a few minutes to send the other party.
This way is like doing business, no one owes anyone, everyone is clear.
I hope I can get sick and let my son come and talk. “I really don’t adapt to life here. I don’t even have a speaker.”
“The old man who lives in Panyu Lijiang Garden, nearly seventy years old, said: Looking for people to chat instead of male elderly people, many female elderly people are also very lonely.
Mrs. Zhong lost his wife two years ago. The son and daughter-in-law of the filial piety brought her to Panyu from her hometown in Hunan in order to let her mother enjoy her blessings in her later years. I did not expect this to enjoy but to enjoy loneliness.
The habit of Mrs. Zhong’s original cultivation in the countryside was very uncomfortable with the life of the city.
Especially in my hometown, Mrs. Zhong likes to have a bowl of dinner with her neighbors and chat, and her days are very happy.
Since coming to Panyu, she lives in a three-bedroom, one-bedroom house without leaving her home. The neighbors are also “old and dead”, son, daughter-in-law, busy work, grandson attending school. originally loved to laughMrs. Zhong suddenly became silent and silent.
“In such a big house, I am alone all day, and I can’t find anyone to talk at home. It doesn’t matter how much the taste is.
I also want to go out to play, but I am not familiar with life. If there is a mistake, I will worry my son.
“In fact, sometimes I hope that I can get sick every day, because in this case, the children will take time off to stay with me and talk to me.”
“Old lady screamed with tears.”